Weight of the Wielding
Weight of the Wielding – You Deciding for Us
Etymology is your secret little weapon, and I’m not referring to bugs. Decider, latin root of decision, means to Slay. Some humans are designed for deciding. Others overthink, hem and haw, see ambivalence everywhere and cannot kill option A to follow option B. This is because people and companies are complex (too many options) but Leaders simplify the field by focusing on the goal. Reluctant leaders prune the thick forest so the best trees may flourish (people and outcomes). How? By slaying. You can fire anyone so long as you step aside when your protégé can take things beyond your capacities. And you will be wrong. Can you accept this with humility? You will hire a disaster and fire a genius. Are you good with this in an open sort of way? Or do such choices close you off, harden you, make you contract? When this happens: consult, reach out, let consensus inform. Be open to defer. But only on the mission critical items. You will decide the vast majority of steps – unless you are organized around team input. Are you and your company balancing these dynamics?
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Bryant Kusy, LCPC, a fearless mentor and therapist who, through his trauma and attachment based trainings, strives to re-member our Virtue.